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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options that enhance the game's immersive experience. Whether you're seeking a long-lasting relationship or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to diverse preferences. This guide provides detailed steps to navigate the romance paths with each character, ensuring you don't miss out on any cherished moments.
All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
Romance in BG3 Explained:
In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is accessible to all players regardless of their character's sex. The game offers both short-term and long-term relationships, varying significantly based on the character you aim to romance and your personal goals. Some characters are open to one-night stands, while others require a more prolonged courtship.
Be aware that pursuing multiple romances can lock you out of certain options. Some characters demand exclusivity, and specific tasks must be completed promptly to maintain their interest. Not all companions are romanceable, and once you commit to a relationship, your interactions with them will change, making it impossible to experience every romance in one playthrough.
All Romance Options:
Companion characters available for romance include:
- Shadowheart
- Gale
- Astarion
- Karlach
- Wyll
- Lae'zel
- Halsin
- Minthara
Non-companion characters available for short-term romance are:
- Mizora
- Guardian/Emperor
- Drow Twins
- Haarlep
- Naoise Nallinto
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3
Shadowheart is often the first romance option players encounter due to her early introduction and interest. Romancing her adds depth to her narrative arc, making it a compelling choice.
How to Romance Shadowheart:
- Keep Shadowheart in your party to easily boost her approval through acts of kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy. Supporting her against Lae'zel early on significantly increases her approval.
- Once your approval is high in Act I, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue. Alternatively, wait for the party after rescuing Halsin, where she might invite you to share a bottle. Choose her as your evening companion, and during the walk, avoid options that show disinterest to end the night with a kiss.
- In Act II, you can continue the romance regardless of choosing Selune or Shar. Support her new look if choosing Selune, or wait for a nighttime event if choosing Shar.
- In Act III, complete her quest to trigger a final nighttime event, a swim, where choosing the positive dialogue options leads to a special scene.
Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:
- Shadowheart may end the relationship if you romance others, though this isn't always the case. Save frequently if you're aiming for an exclusive romance, especially in Honor Mode.
How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3
Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, offers a deep narrative connection. His romance can significantly impact the game's storyline.
How to Romance Gale:
- Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
- Fulfill his requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
- Accept his invitation for a magic lesson in Act I, choosing romantic dialogue options. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
- Before transitioning to Act II, support Gale during the Elminster cutscene, showing you care about his fate.
- In Act III, keep Gale alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Before a long rest, speak to Gale and choose "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" for a romantic scene.
Gale Romance Special Notes:
- Gale is not open to an open relationship and will be unhappy if you romance others.
How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3
Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice. His open-minded nature offers unique romance possibilities.
How to Romance Astarion:
- Boost his approval by adding him to your party early and choosing self-serving options. He appreciates sarcasm and typically disapproves of helping others.
- Allow Astarion to drink your blood to increase your relationship.
- During the party, ensure you talk to Astarion and select dialogue options like "...saving lives is awful?", "...goblins would have thrown a wilder party", "...what's your idea of a little fun?", and "...let's do it. I'll see you later" to unlock the first major romance scene. Let him bite you to further boost approval.
- After the initial romance, show interest in his scars and ask about their Infernal writing.
- In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn about Astarion's scars. At night, choose "...about your undying love for me?", "So do I. More than anything.", "I care about you. Deeply.", and "You mean a great deal to me. No matter what you are going through."
- In Act III, complete Astarion's quest. You can choose whether to let him complete the ritual, but support him either way for a special scene.
Astarion Romance Special Notes:
- Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner and won't get truly angry about your other romantic encounters.
How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3
Karlach's romance is challenging to initiate but deeply rewarding. She values loyalty and kindness, making her a unique partner.
How to Romance Karlach:
- Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early to build her approval. She values kindness, understanding, and violence in the service of helping others.
- Collect Infernal Iron and bring it to Dammon at the Emerald Grove. After he helps Karlach, express disappointment that you can't touch her yet, and she'll ask if it's something you want. Confirm that it is.
- During the party, tell Karlach how you feel. Later, express your desire to find a way to kiss her. The next morning, use water to cool her off temporarily and attempt to kiss her. She'll be okay with you seeing others until her heart is fixed.
- In Act II, find Dammon at the Last Light Inn and use all available Infernal Iron to help her.
- In Act III, take Karlach on a date.
Karlach Romance Special Notes:
- Karlach will be very upset if you sleep with other characters, but it's possible to redeem yourself if you're not sarcastic or mean. After fixing her heart, you can enter a long-term relationship with unique dialogue options.
How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3
Wyll's romance enhances his compelling storyline, making it a rewarding choice for players.
How to Romance Wyll:
- Build Wyll's approval through heroism, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Help him understand the situation with Karlach and support him against Mizora and his father.
- Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove. If your approval is high, Wyll will be available to spend the night with during the party.
- In Act II, after a Long Rest, you'll encounter Wyll dancing. Follow the romantic prompts during this encounter.
- In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur for a final romantic scene.
How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3
Lae'zel's romance can be short-term or long-term, depending on your actions and choices.
How to Romance Lae'zel:
- Raise her approval by acting decisively and aggressively. She values direct action and intimidation over persuasion or deception.
- With high approval, mention her different gaze at camp for a potential one-night stand.
- Maintain her approval into Act II, where she'll challenge you to a duel. The outcome doesn't matter; you'll still win her heart.
- In Act III, her stance with Vlaakith or Orpheus affects the romance. Siding with Orpheus can lead to a couple's ending.
Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:
- Lae'zel is not open to multiple partners and will end the relationship if you cheat after the duel.
How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3
Halsin's romance is popular among fans, particularly for his connection to nature.
How to Romance Halsin:
- Ensure you complete all of Halsin's quests before the end of Act II to avoid being locked out of romance options. Lift the Shadow Curse before concluding the act.
- Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion later.
- In Act II, help him locate Thaniel to make him join your party. Keep him in your party and act with kindness, respect for nature, and fairness.
- Exhaust all of Halsin's dialogue options daily, particularly those about former lovers.
- Once his approval is high enough, he'll visit you at night. He'll ask about other relationships, with Shadowheart and Astarion being okay with it, but not Karlach or Gale.
How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3
Minthara's romance is unique due to her typically antagonistic role, making it suitable for evil playthroughs.
How to Romance Minthara:
- Instead of attacking the Goblin Camp, side with Minthara and betray the Emerald Grove.
- After defeating the grove, tell Minthara it was an honor to fight beside her, 'Embrace the change,' and open your mind. She'll visit your camp later.
- During the goblin party, tell Minthara you are hers. Go to bed, and she'll join you. If you fail the persuasion check, she'll attack at the encounter's end.
Note: Since the official release, some players claim you can knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp and rescue her in Act II at Moonrise Towers, leading to her joining your party. This has not been confirmed and will be updated once verified.
Minthara Romance Special Notes:
- Choosing the evil route significantly alters the game's experience, causing friction with other party members.
All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
How to Romance Mizora:
- Ensure Wyll is in your party and do not side with Minthara.
- Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
- In Act III, find Mizora at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation. Discuss Duke Ravengard, and she'll mention visiting your camp.
- Rest until you see an exclamation mark over her head. Speak to her, and when she mentions something "beyond these planes," ask, "Sounds delicious, what are you suggesting?" Then simply, "Smile."
- Mizora will visit you at night, triggering the romance scene.
How to Romance the Guardian:
- Between Act II and III, choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor.
- Evolve into Half-Ilithid (helpful but not mandatory) to boost approval.
- Visit the Emperor's old hideout and learn about his past lover.
- The Emperor will visit you after discovering his past. Choose to hold their hand.
- During their next visit, they'll be more forward. Ask if they are flirting and react positively to their advances, triggering the romance scene.
How to Romance the Drow Twins:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing in Act III.
- Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar. You can either complete her quest or pay directly for access to the twins.
- Go to the directed chambers to initiate the scene. Avoid asking Gale or Karlach to join if you're in a relationship with them.
How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:
- Reach the House of Hope, Raphael's home.
- Cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to enter the Boudoir.
- Find Haarlep, an Incubus, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.
How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing.
- At the top of the stairs leading to the second floor, find a door marked by a green lantern and ivy. Pick the lock or get the key from Mamzell.
- Enter the chamber to find Naoise and Jara. Defeat the Mindflayer that Jara turns into.
- Speak to Naoise, who is still interested in a romantic encounter. Follow the cues to experience a brief scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.
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